The Bed Sharing Guide: Do Cats Really Like Sleeping Together? (And When They Don’t)
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<h1>🐾 The Bed Sharing Guide: Do Cats Really Like Sleeping Together? (And When They Don’t)</h1>
<p>Your cats curl up together sometimes — but other days, one sleeps under the couch and the other in your sock drawer. So what’s the truth? <strong>Do cats actually like to share beds?</strong> Or are they just tolerating each other?</p>
<p>This article breaks down the <strong>science and social signals behind feline bed-sharing behavior</strong>, and shows you how to support healthy, stress-free sleep — together or apart. 😽😼</p>
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<h2>💡 What Bed Sharing Actually Means (To Cats)</h2>
<p>Cats are solitary hunters, not pack animals. Even bonded cats still want personal space.</p>
<p>When two cats sleep together:
<ul>
<li>✅ It’s a sign of deep trust or shared scent group</li>
<li>✅ It helps with warmth, grooming, and stress reduction</li>
<li>❌ It’s not always permanent — most cats rotate sleep zones</li>
</ul></p>
<p>💡 Cats may sleep together sometimes and apart other times — both are normal.</p>
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<h2>😿 When Cats Don’t Want to Share</h2>
<ul>
<li>They’ve recently had a disagreement or territory shift</li>
<li>One cat is sick or sore and doesn’t want contact</li>
<li>There’s not enough space — someone always gets pushed off</li>
<li>They don’t feel safe or warm in the current bed</li>
</ul>
<p>✅ Forcing sharing increases tension. <strong>Offer multiple beds and let them choose.</strong></p>
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<h2>🛏️ How to Support Cats Who Sometimes Share</h2>
<h3>✅ Offer one “social” bed + 1–2 personal options nearby:</h3>
<ul>
<li>🔁 <a href="https://purrz.com/products/3-in-1-cat-cube-cave" target="_blank">3-in-1 Cube</a> – use flat or half mode as a snuggle space</li>
<li>🛋️ <a href="https://purrz.com/products/xl-felt-pad" target="_blank">XL Felt Pad</a> – open, neutral zone ideal for 1–2 cats</li>
<li>🏠 <a href="https://purrz.com/collections/felt-houses" target="_blank">Felt Houses</a> – give each cat a “room” to decompress</li>
</ul>
<p>✅ If they share? Great.
If they separate? Also great.
<em>Let the cats decide.</em></p>
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<h2>🧠 When You Should Offer Separate Beds</h2>
<ul>
<li>Any time you notice bed guarding or blocking</li>
<li>One cat starts sleeping in odd or uncomfortable places</li>
<li>You’ve added a new cat to the home (transition period)</li>
<li>One cat is older or recovering from illness or surgery</li>
</ul>
<p>💡 Two cats = 3 beds = harmony (especially when spread across rooms or zones).</p>
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<h2>💬 From Dr. Duncan Houston</h2>
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“Cats sharing a bed is a privilege, not a requirement. A neutral pad, multiple options, and enough space to retreat are what keep peace in a multi-cat home. Let them show you what they need.”
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<h2>🛒 Shop Bed Solutions for Every Type of Cat Dynamic</h2>
<ul>
<li>🛋️ <a href="https://purrz.com/products/xl-felt-pad" target="_blank">XL Felt Pad</a> – open and shareable</li>
<li>🔁 <a href="https://purrz.com/products/3-in-1-cat-cube-cave" target="_blank">3-in-1 Cube</a> – flexible for solo or shared naps</li>
<li>🏠 <a href="https://purrz.com/collections/felt-houses" target="_blank">Felt Houses</a> – one for each personality</li>
</ul>
<p>😽 <strong><a href="https://purrz.com/collections/felt-caves" target="_blank">Build a peaceful bed layout for every cat at Purrz</a></strong></p>
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<h2>📚 References</h2>
<ol>
<li>International Cat Care. (2023). Feline social behavior and space management. https://icatcare.org</li>
<li>Bradshaw, J. (2013). *Cat Sense: How the New Feline Science Can Make You a Better Friend to Your Pet*. Basic Books.</li>
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